Sex counseling – when intimacy raises questions
If intimacy is currently raising many questions for you, sex counseling can help you find clarity and connection again.
Professional help for a fulfilling sex life
In sex counseling, we support you in gaining clarity, finding new paths, and experiencing more connection and ease in your intimacy.
Sexual counseling helps individuals and couples overcome sexual problems and lead a fulfilling sex life.
She offers professional support for functional disorders, lack of desire, and communication problems in sexuality.
Consultation appointments in German or English.
Sexuality in the context of relationships
For many couples, sexuality is an expression of closeness, connection, and vitality. At the same time, it is a sensitive area that is strongly influenced by relationship experiences, communication, and emotional security.
Changes in sexual experience are therefore not unusual and not a sign of personal failure.
When sex counseling can be helpful
Sex counseling can be helpful when sexuality has become a source of distress or is being avoided. Often it's less about "technique" and more about communication, expectations, and unspoken feelings. Typical reasons for seeking counseling include:
- different sexual needs
- Withdrawal or loss of closeness
- Uncertainty in speaking about wishes and boundaries
- Tensions following breaches of trust
- Changes due to stress, illness or life phases
Even uncertainty about whether sex counseling is the right setting can be a useful starting point.
How sex counseling works
Sexual counseling begins with an initial consultation. This consultation is a full session in which your concerns are carefully assessed. You will gain an initial perspective on your situation and a realistic understanding of what further steps might be helpful. During the course of the sessions, the following topics may be discussed, among others:
- Misunderstandings will be clarified.
- Expectations become visible
- emotional backgrounds need to be understood
- New forms of conversation about sexuality are emerging.
The goal is not a specific sexual "solution", but a constructive and respectful approach to the topic.
Our systemic approach to sex therapy
In sex therapy, we always consider sexuality in the context of the entire relationship.
The focus is not on evaluation or standardization, but on understanding. It's about how closeness develops, what fosters security, and which dynamics are at play.
We work exclusively through conversation. Physical exercises do not take place during the sessions.
Boundaries, feelings of shame, and different ideas about pace are respected.
Sexuality after crises or breaches of trust
After traumatic experiences such as infidelity or prolonged periods of conflict, intimacy is often ambivalent. Closeness can be both desired and feared.
Sex counseling can help to express this ambivalence and to carefully consider it. Not everything needs to be clarified or decided immediately.
Distinction from medical treatment
Sexual counseling is not a substitute for medical or physician evaluation. A medical examination may be advisable in cases of physical discomfort or pain.
Sexual counseling complements medical measures by taking emotional and communicative aspects into account.
Difference between sex counseling and sex therapy
Sexual counseling focused on concrete problems and solution-oriented approaches.
sex therapy It is used to treat underlying psychological causes of sexual disorders.
Discretion and safe space
All conversations are subject to confidentiality.
Online counselling offers added discretion and a more confidential setting. You speak from a place where you feel safe.
Common topics in sex therapy
- Erectile dysfunction – advice for potency problems, even without medication.
- Orgasmic disorders – support for men and women.
- Lack of desire – Sexual counseling for men/women with a lack of libido.
- Sexual dissatisfaction after childbirth or when trying to conceive.
- Jealousy and trust issues in couple sexuality.
- Regaining intimacy in a long-term relationship.
- Sexual counseling after sexual trauma.
- Communication problems – how do I talk about sexual problems in the relationship?
Costs and framework
The Initial and clarification consultation kostet EUR 140 and usually lasts about an hour. This initial consultation comes with a 100% satisfaction guarantee. If you are not satisfied, we will refund you in full.
Follow-up calls also typically last about an hour. The cost depends on the tariff plan you choose.
There is no obligation to book a specific quota.
Transparency, price and booking
Initial consultation with a satisfaction guarantee. Transparent terms and invoice.
Book your appointment online. Evening appointments or online appointments are available upon request.
• Especially in demand: anonymous and discreet online sex counseling.
• This format offers temporal flexibility and high confidentiality.
• Young people (sex education),
• Couples starting a family,
• People after separations and senior citizens.
• Sexual counseling differs from this by offering practical and solution-oriented support.